he's probably a player. If your looking for a meaningful realationship the guy, you should try to did someone else. If your okay with just playing around I'd suggest playing hard to get. It seems like that works with him.

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 Preppygoth

It sounds to me like he is just wanting to hook up with you. I know guys like that who can be really sweet 'till they get what they want then they will break your heart. If he doesn't talk to you around his friends that means he probably doesn't have a crush on you&is embarresed to be seen with you in public if you aren't "popular" (i know, its ridiculous.) Or, he might actually like you but still if he doesnt feel comfortable with you being around him when he's with his friends then it shows that he doesn't truly care for you and you can do so much better by liking someone that will like you for you (not just your body!) and not be ashamed of you. So either way i think you should just forget about him, i know the idea of a popular, hot jock is very appealing (been there, done that!) but in the end it's not worth it if they're shallow and are just going to use you. I hope this helps and good luck hun.

:)tsipeerc

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 tsipeerc

Well for one I think it's impossible to simply choose to stop having a crush, so don't try to stop. But it seems like ge really may just like you below the neck and may really not like you for who you are. In light of that i'd say you may wanna stay away from him. It sounds like he's embarressed by you in front of the cool croud so if you ever dated, he might neglect you while he's with them, which is bad.

I'd find someone different before you get hurt. Sorry

good luck

-bighugeford

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 Bighugeford

This guy sounds like a total jerk. He's just using you for hook-ups, hes not looking for a real relationship like you most likely are. If you end up being with him, then you are going to get hurt. I would suggest moving on from him, and finding a guy who loves you for your personality, not just your body.

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 Beachbabe3500

I have gone through the same thing. We deserve respect and not someone who looks at other girls. If he is goin to do that then he isn't worth it... U can't help but to like them but all I got to say is u need to take a stand and be able to say no or stop. We shouldn't let a guy do that to us

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 Holly345

Wow that dude just wants a good F*ck. don't do it. He is what i call a man *****. In his mind he is playing a game to see how fast he can get some!

Don't hang with him find someone better.

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 DerekS

hes a total jerk and sounds embarrassed by you and trust me you do not want to get hurt because like most guys like that all they want is sex and then they will leave u for the next girl trust me i've ben there dne that and don't wana go bak

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 hopexxxooo

Ok I know whats going ong hes just using you as a sexual outlet, Im sorry but he doesnt like you. You sound like a nice girl, I would wait for someone else, remember you can finally find love once when you stop looking

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 garfoonga

He's a player plain and simple,

Just leave him alone and stop contact with him...players will leave you with your heart broken!

Hope I helped..

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 Chelo101

If he does like you, it doesn't seem likely he would want to show it in front of his jock friends. If he doesn't then he's just going to use you. Lose-lose situation.

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 banj007

Flirt

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 Loveguru69

Hunn he is not a good person to mess around with you will totally get hurt in this situation. Jocks are jerks and they use people alot they justthink there the best of the best too juststay away from him.... Really :/

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 Ineedtoexplain

Yea he sounds like a sleeze! Honestly I'd say forget about him. If u do want to be his friend, however, and if your crush won't send u on an emotional roller coaster...then hey go for it. My advise if that's the case, is pretty much the same...forget about him. Lol... Meaning, don't try so hard, or at all....without being a biach to him. Just pay him no mind but be friendly when needed.....suttle. Just get him out of your head. When your crush isn't controlling you, then you're the one in control! And best case scenario, if he really isn't a jerk and does like u...he might come around when he notices you not paying so much attention to him, or allowing him to think your a hook up call!

Hope it all works out- good luck!

:0)

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 iKimSue

He's like every other boys.

don't continue; don't flirt back.

he prolly look at you as a qirl whu qunna give it up just like that. & he's just a phoney guy. he shouldn't be iqnorinq u in front of his friends. it's like the movie grease

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 LiveO2LoveCrazy

hes just gonna be alotta trouble. dnt do it. its not worth it. you will regret it later if you do.

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 smilez5431

hes just gonna be alotta trouble. dnt do it. its not worth it. you will regret it later if you do.

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 smilez5431

He just wants puuuuussy. And he knows your easy and will get it from u bc ur one of those vulnerable girls that will take any affection they can get(:

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 Lala69