Lack of Friends...Break

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Recently I've had fewer and fewer people conversing with me to the point that no one txts me or talks to me on facebook or even want to hang out. Admittedly I rarely have 'hung out' with people before but when I do I tend to have a great time. However, when I ask friends if they are up for something they all say they got work, classes, or whatever the case may be. Question is: Should I look for a new circle of friends or deal with the friends I have?

DrTenma is in a conflict with a friend.

14 Comments

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I don't really know what u can do to help you except by saying I have the same problem so I know where your comming from so don't feel alone

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TKD

Same I have the same problem right now... :(

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Bellydancingbabe

That sounds just like me!!! What I found to work is when I just get a few people together, like on a weekend when nobody has anything. Then go see a movie or something. If that doesn't work, try it on a holiday where everybody is gaurenteed(did I spell that right?) to have an open day. Stick it out with your friends, then just go with it. If you don't get any texts or calls, call them first. When everybody waits for someone to contact them, all you get is a group of waiting, disappointed people.

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Background

Why are we getting voted down? Were giving you help and consolation, and were all being voted down? Wth?

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Background

I don't think it's him that's voting you down but others who dislike something you said...

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Kira

Don't think we said anything offensive to ANYbody.

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Background

I know but it shouldn't matter to anyone really.

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Kira

Find some more friends

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MCunning

I'm experiencing the same thing I actually find that all my BROTHERS friends became mine made me think damn can I make friends of my own and the answer is yess friendship takes time you don't need 1000 friends ya know take it a day at a time like i do and you always have fam bam to fall back on they always got you if no one else does

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Jujubean

Id still try to organize stuff with your actual friends if you really like them if not or if it never works out, start hanging out with new ppl too. Just go gradually. Dont leave your friends for someone who wont do better... BUT remember sometimes ppl just cant they actually have somestuff planned... Also plan it for in a while so they have time to change other plans

Really hope it helped xx

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Forevermyself

Make new friends but keep the old. Its really quite simple

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Tiger101391

Thanks for the advice everyone but I think I'll just leave all my old friends in the dust and make new ones. It's clear that they don't like me otherwise they wouldn't blow me off every time I ask or invite.

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DrTenma

:( I soo know how u feel. If their being mean like that then find a group of new ppl that actually appreciate u. My so called friends r also like that. Whenever I'm at the lunch table they totally ignore me and pretnd I'm not even there and yesterday one of my friends was like "okay we're all hanging out on Friday for sure." and she pointed at everyone at the table except for me so I was like WTF I'm sitting like right across the table from u? And then to my other friend next to me she was like "hey do u wanna go to the mall with me on Monday?" she alwys does crap like that. Idk all my friends hate me n I really want to get new ones but idk who... :'(

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Bellydancingbabe

I would make new friends, but keep the ones you still have.

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Zordan13