Well I'm not around your age, I'm 13. But the reason I think girls move on so fast is there sad about the break so they think if they go find what they used to have things will be the same again. So they go find a new boyfriend and then it's just like it was when she was with you.

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 Broken-hearted-boy

I see what you trying to say. But then again a girl can't replace me cuz there's only one of me. I'm not saying I'm the best guy out there. You can replace any guy or girl but it will never be the same as before. Everyones unique in their own way so it's hard to find a guy or girl exactly as your ex.

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 Operationivy09

Girls tend to be emotionally broken after a relationship. We feel vulnerable, and desperate most of the time. We get lonely and need someone to help us through it. How we try to get over our ex's is by going out and looking for a new guy who can comfort us and then we try to make ourselves believe we'll be fine once we meet a new guy. That's now always right.

Girls try to act like nothings happened and they try not to think about the breakup. Or atleast, that's what I do. I try not thinking about it and just being quiet. That may come off as "I didn't care" but trust me, we do care, were just trying not to think about the breakup.

Sometimes we even go out and find a guy just to make our ex boyfriend jealous. I can speak for every girl, that I'm pretty sure we've all tried once or twice. She may have been trying to make you jealous by going out and hooking up with a new guy because she knew it'd get back to you.

Like I said before, girls are in a vulnerable stage after a breakup and feel very desperate to find a new guy to help them and to take their mind off their ex. They think once they've found a new guy within a few days, weeks, months, are heart will recover faster, but that's not always the case.

On a personal note, I take one day just to let out all my tears for my ex and then move on the next. My motto is we can't dwell on the past, we just have to keep on moving forward, his loss. I try to make my schedule busy so I don't have time to think about the ex, and I go out and have fun with my friends a lot of the time to take my mind off of things. I personally just try to do whatever I can to take my mind off of the breakup (and the ex) and hope that eventually, I'll just stop thinking about him. It's different in every girls case but I think I got the basics of what girls go through after a breakup.

Best of luck and wishes

Abercrombieegirl

P.S. I'm 18

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 Abercrombieegirl

Ok I'm only 14 but I've always seemed to think that guys get over a breakup way faster. I broke up with my ex 3 months ago and I still can't get over him and he's had at least 3 other girlfriends. If a girl seems to be over the breakup in 2 weeks, then maybe she didn't like u. But if u were together for a really long time and she's already got another guy, she's probably just with him to take her mind off of u. Or maybe she's trying to make u jealous. Sorry idk much, but I hope this helps.

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 iluvboys

I really don't take break up that well and it takes awile for me to get over it and I really didn't want to go out with any one cuz it hurt me 2 much. I am 17

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 Sexybaby17