ok so me and my gf went 2 a movie last night with 2 of her friends and she said we wud kiss 4 10seconds but it was like 3 cuz her friends made fun of her and i blew up at her but i didnt mean to now we brokeup and ik that she doesnt want this and i dont want it but idk what 2 do i tryed getting her bak but that didnt work and i will never get over her cuz she was my frist ture love and kiss and hug i want her bak so bad im so sad without her im crying rite now cuz im not with her idk what 2 do plz help me
Try to control your anger, I'm sure she's just in awe and disbelief right now because I'm sure she's hurting just as much as you are.
Yelling at her because of a kiss is not the right thing to do. That makes the girl think you were just using her. Just because she didn't give you a long enough kiss doesn't mean you should blow up on her. She's probably thinking right now that you were just using her (because you got so defensive about the kiss).
All you can do is talk to her about it and tell her how you feel. Handle your anger better and pour your heart out to her telling her how you feel. That's really the only thing you can do, and hope for the best. If fate were to have it, you two will be together soon again.
For future reference, try to keep your intimate sessions with your girlfriend in private. A girl gets awkward and embarrassed when she feels forced to infront of other people.
I think first of all this isn't your fault entirely but you really need to control your anger! Guys who get mad because of lack of kissing or stuff are often controling so she's probably a bit scared even.
It would be very hard to get her back. I think you have three options:
1) let it go. Just give up on her, maybe find a new gf. I dunno just get over her.
2) try to make up and apologize. Go to her in person and explain what happened. Say how she was your first love and her friends ruined the most perfect moment of your life and it just Hirt so bad you got out of control and you're very sorry, then say you still love her and would like her back but if she doesn't want you back it's ok.
3) talk to the friends of hers who made fun of you. Explain how they ruined the best moment of your life and you really would never act like that but it was just the way it happened that made you snap and nothing like it will ever happen again. Then you can have the friends talk to her and say they're sorry they're partly to blame and apalogize for you and have them ask on your behalf to take you back. The only thing with this coarse of action is if you to this you MUST not try to blame them. Remember you were the one who went crazy you should have had self control it's 90% your fault.
Don't try to put the blame on them no matter what you do.
Let her know how you felt, let her know that you felt like she was embarrassd of you. although she was in the wrong to because who puts a time limit on a kiss with their bf or gf
well try giving her some space. and spend some time to work on you. get to know yourself better and you will be waaaaaaayy happier. then maybe later on you can try going out again. hope that helps (:
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