Awkward silence - BreakkUp

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Awkward silence

Okay so there always seems to be an awkward silence whenever me and my boyfriend are together . We talk a lot but sometimes there's just a really weird pause and we just don't know what to say. I'm just wondering if that's not normal to have uncomfortable silence.

immastarx3 is in a conflict with him.

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I had that and we ended up braking up

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naikoa

Haha your awful :)))

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Thesexxgiver

don't worry about that. there used to be the same problem with me and my boyfriend but the more we were together the easier it got to talk about something :) & yeah it is normal because ur not the only one that feels that way :)

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TheGirlYouWant247

Every relationship Is like that at some point .. But you have nothing to worry about .. Just talk about it with him =) see how it goes

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HugszNkisseszx0x0

It's very normal. You guys just tend to get shy around each other. Just find ways to open up and keep the conversation going. Try to be flirty and show him that you want the relationship to stay, so that he doesn't think you're too shy around him and want to end it. Even though it seems as though he's shy around you he may not know how to open up and feel guilty about it, so the only way he doesn't have to is to break up with you. I know that kinda sounded confusing, but do you get what I'm talking about? Just find ways to break the silence. Be out there. Show him your true colors.

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xeightsixteenxx

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Izzybobizzy10

Idk if it's normal. By when it happns just look him in the eyes and tell him how you feel about him. See if that helps.

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Sarabeast

Totally normal. When it happens, do what I do: sit for a couple of seconds, then chant a couple times "awkward silence" that usually gets a laugh out of my friend and helps to break the ice, so to speak. If you're not a joker like that don't do it, but you could just talk about the first random thing that pops into your head. Don't think about it just say it(unless it's really out there or awkward like "pelicans are cool" or somehing). Start a convo about anything, and go from there. It gets easier with time and repetition.

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Background

It happens with me and my "bf". But he always says he loves talking to me, knowing I'm thinking about him, even if our convo is about nothing or even if nothing is being said.

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Cathy3395

It's normal at first. But once a silence between two people is not akward, it's love. (or a really goodfriendship) but between lovers then you know it's true. (((:

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Babyygirl

Trust me , every relationship is like that at times.don't worry about it . :)

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Miranda

Yes it's normal, alot of people go through that. It gets easier the more comfortable you get though.

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MistiBlue