I lied about his name i cheated on him with

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okay my boyfriend and i been dating for a year.im 17 and he is 19.we were having problems few months back .he wasnt treating me right.he would treat me like i was nothing .we ended up breaking up and i thought it was then end..i was hopeless he would want to anwer none of my calls or text messages.so i really thought we were done.i was very depressed we broke up for like 2 weeks but during those two weeks i messed around with this guy from school.we ended up doing it then right after i regreted.Few days later i got very sick and my boyfriend came back to my life and started to take care of me cuz he was worried.but i had to tell him what i did .he asked if i messed around with anyone and i couldnt lie to him.im very close with him so i had to tell him.i told him but he got mad.he didnt want nothing to do with me . i was begging him back and he took me back.but i kinda lied about who it was and i told him it was an old friend that didnt go to my school and the guy did.i lied about his name.i didnt think nothing much about it.
just reasonly i told him i lied about the name and he dumped me ..he doesnt want nothing to do with me .he feels like all these months been a lie.he said if i told him the truth the first time he wouldnt of tooking me back.but the thing is that i dont talk to this guy .after i did what i did i told the guy i didnt want to be friends with him cuz i would have more problems to worry about.

my boy has been telling me to move on.he wants me but he just cant get back with me.and i just cant leave him alone i need him.specially right now that i need him the most..im alone in cali and my whole family is leaving out of state.i was going through this with my sister but she moved out of state so now im alone and i feel like im on my own and im only 17.so this is the time where i need his comfort and love.but he is not there and it is harder.i love him to death and i just cant seem to let go.and i hate it cuz i call him and he just cuxes me out and i still try and try and nothing he wont get back.even if he carries alot of feelings for me..i have begged him and cried to him and nothing.if you have to beg and cried to someone to be with you then that person is not worth it.but i just dont know what to do.i really dont know how to get him back..

babycakes25 is in a conflict with him.

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You probably won't be able to. You lied to him and now he doesn't trust you, and trust is the most important thing in a relationship.

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Cluelessgirl

Trust isn't going to come back overnight - i lied and he's hurt. It will take time to earn it back right

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babycakes25

This may sound cheesy but I guess it is worth a shot it is called a visual picture and uses the emotions get ideas across and if used right can change people(personal experiance)

Say:

Over month and months of my life I have gone through many storms and trouble and have always been able to run to my shelter but then I made a regret and hurt my shelter and myself as well and now in a huge catastrofie for myself I have no shelter to run to though I have tryed to repair. I lost my shelter and broken myself for something I wish had never happened. The storm clouds keep pileing up at my door and keep pouring down upon me and I only wish I could have my rock, my shelter, my prince charming back in my life.

I know I can't fix everything but I have to try to fix this because it means so much to me.

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Mleslie93

ima try it but i doubt he will listen cuz i have wrote him little notes and letters but he stronging feels that he just cant get back

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babycakes25

Well I wish u good luck because all you can do now if he means that much to you is try

I hope u get what is best in the end for you

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Mleslie93

If he means the world to you; beat your heart out & try. stand in his doorstep & wait til he come out. Ask him out to eat. denn tell him how you really feel. Apoloqize. & if he tryinq hard to qet. den let him qo.- he's not worth it,

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