Babie Fever?? - BreakkUp

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Babie Fever??

I'm 18 about to graduate I know i should be focused on my future but all I can see is a baby!! I really want a baby my boyfriend don't want one... Hmmm am i crazy

Jujubean is conflicted.

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Don't have a baby out of wedlock. And don't have one so young. You'll ruin the baby's life and your's.

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KatieGail

I completely disagree with you!!

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Sarabeast

But why? You said in your comment that there are disadvantages. I wasn't saying that babies are awful and no one should have any, I'm just saying that without a degree and a well-paying job, it would be selfish to have a baby. You want your children to have a better life than you did, and you can't provide that at just 18.

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KatieGail

You are not crazy, once you start developping such ideas in you, it can take time to take out. Before you plan for a baby, mahe sure you gonna be there 100% mostly or not less than 75% . financially stable, b'coz dieppers, milks, I mean food and clothe will need some stability on finance. Think twice about it.

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Akram

yea , you sound a little crazy

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Zorro

Well I think my sister was the same way. She graduated high school last may and had my beautiful little niece this past December. She's managing college, a baby and a job. Quite well. But. She does work at a daycare which happens to be my mothers so she is getting free childcare while at work and school. And just because of this, doesn't mean were trashy. Most people think you're whole family is just trashy if somebody has a baby before the get married. It wouldn't be my choice, but she is doing very well and I love playing with little Anna Scott. And since she's still living with us she pretty much always has a babysitter ifshe needa it! Tere are perks. But there are disadvantages.

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Sarabeast

Sorry that's kinda long!

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Sarabeast

Hahah that's okay thanx for the advice!!

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Jujubean

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Sarabeast

People can't handle it if they aren't fully prepared for it. And even though a person may be as prepared as they can they still won't be because expectations might change. So no one can say for sure if any person can handle any situation such as childbirth.

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Kira

Sarabest>> your sister is EXTREMELY lucky to have your mom and you as support. Very few people would get free daycare (I pay $750 per month!!!). Very few people have family support. If the poster does not have free daycare or family support she and her baby will suffer. It wouldnot be impossible but very very difficult. Please don't encourage people to have babies when you do not know their situation. Maybe she is just lonely & thinks a baby will love her

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Jillian2205

Please wait until you finish school & get a bit of work experience & maybe in a year or two you will find a man that will be with you forever & you can have a beautiful family together

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Jillian2205

I didn't encourage her. I only explained my sisters situation. No where in my post did I say That she should have a babynow. I said it has perks and disadvantages.

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Sarabeast

Give it some time... You find oppertunities are presented to you that you can't imagine right now like travel, work, general fun? You have so much time to have a baby! Just enjoy being 18 whilst you can! :)

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Chinchin