does chilvary still exists.?Because it seems all guys want in this time is sex and imtimacy.! They dont want long relationships.,I prefer older guys cause they have that respect for women and love.,But do teenagers actually are like that.,?Does it still exists.?And what do you prefer older or younger.?
I'm a teen and I want a long relationship. It seems like I can't find a girl that wants that though! Like I don't want sex in a teenage relationship, that's meant for marriage. I prefer girls like in my grade. A younger girl isn't what I look for to date. I'm a freshman and I only go after freshman girls. So ya there's atleast one guy who is like that, me!
I'm 16, and i'd love a long relationship with a girl. I honestly don't think chivalry is dead, I still try to keep it alive. And I don't want anything sexual, not till I'm married where it's meant to be. And I notice I've tended to go for girls a bit older than me, but still in my grade(sophmore), like no more than three months older. This isn't on purpose, just turns out that way. The girl I like now is exactly three weeks older than me, but I think it's all right.
Chivalry is relative to the individual. However, an objective view is that chivalry is dead because no longer does a guy work to keep a relationship going let alone to start one.
Personally, I choose to keep it alive for my girlfriend by doing the little things for her. Opening doors, pulling out her seat, brining her food, etc.
It completely exists, my boyfriend is amazing like that.
But it's true, a lot of guys don't want that, but some guys are incredibly sweet. :)
I don't really prefer either older or younger, I usually preferred older, but only by a year or two, but my boyfriend now is 7 months younger than me, and he's better than others. :)
Chiveriy isn't dead. It's all in how the boy was raised. My boyfriend and I started dated when we was like 15 or 16, and his mom always told him to open doors for girls, respect them, and be a gentlemen. He even sometimes got teased for opening the doors for girls but he knew it was right. Now we are 21, with a kid and one on the way and he still open up car doors, make sure I'm put first and respects all women. And I hope he teaches our don that too. Guys now a days have too much pride to show girls they care, or they may not even care but our generation us changing. U have to just look for the gentlemen, they're out there
I totally agree; I've come to an agreement with myself now- Im done with highschool boys, and a few hours later this guy (university student) was flirting with me-totally interested in me :) can't argue with that!:)
You certainly won't find chivalry in teen boys, but in men I still believe that is out there. Well, I guess it all depends on your idea of what chivalry is. Personally I don't need a man to pull out my chair, buy me things, or open doors for me. I consider myself a feminist in the making so to me chivalry is being polite in general. I don't think any women needs a night in shining armor. When I come across a guy who has respect for me and is polite, I'm alright with that. It's not settling for anything, I just don't need a man to pull out my chair. That's just me though.
I know I'm going to get this voted down but I don't care because it's an honest question from an honest heart. Does anyone believe that the complete independence of women have crushed the ideals of chivalrous men?
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