too overprotective

12 votes

too overprotective

I've been dating a guy for over 9 months and everytime he goes to hang out with his buddys and they bring some girls I get soooo upset and start crying and stuff. I've NEVER been this overprotective and I have had longer relationships than this. what do I do???

Illoveyoutoo is conflicted.

11 Comments

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U should trust him till he gives u a reason not to

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Holly345

well if hes not with any girl then u shuldnt worry but if he is with the girls thwn u should worry dont let anyone use u

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senssualgirl

You just need to let yourself trust him. Have faith.

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LoveHeals

trust him because in a relationship you should share trust together so just go with the flow and if he does something dumb then tg

hats a reason to let go. you will always find outif he cheats on you so relax

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hopexxxooo

A relation IS trust. A mutual trust between two people. Unless he's known for cheating.. Cut him some slack.

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banj007

Stop crying for one. If he wanted to cheat he woulda been done it. Girls from my past did that to me n I pushed them away. Kuz that lil baby Isht is LAME. Chill, if he wit his buddys n they bring girls dnt trip he knows what he got. YOU

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Thakidkp19

Trust ne in the sane way if you do that he's seriously going to leave you :/ even though you might get upset don't try to overboard your emotions and cry :/ just try and trust him before it's too late :/ like I did :(

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Ineedtoexplain

U should trust him until he starts being Too close with them..but just let him have friends

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Firefoxed

You should talk to him i mean if you really loved each other yous would trust each ither so siy down and tell him whats on yer mind also you can try talking to the girls like mabey come quite friendly and im sure he'd think thays cool so dry your eyes and trust each other you shouldnt be worrying this much ....first advice so i hope this helpt :)

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JonasXx

That happens to me but u know the girls. It just makes it worse sometimes! My life sucks.

And it would suck without him. No reference to the stupid song either. LOL

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Loveyoubaby

You just gotta trust in what you both have, and that is each other. A guy or a girl should be able to hang out with the opposite sex unless theyre being innapropriate. Otherwise theres nothing really to worry about. One question, dont you hang out with guys too?

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Dheev